Sunday 21 December 2014

19th Birthday Celebrations Round Two!

   Last night finally saw me reunited with my home girls and it was bloody amazing! After a massive build up it was lush to finally be able to see them again, and I certainly wasn't disappointed! Beth was coming over early to get ready at mine, and Lydia was coming over beforehand to do my makeup, so I was able to have a massive catchup with them and we all filled each other in on our university adventures! It reminded me how much I love getting ready with other people and how much I've missed my girls, it was as if we'd never been apart from one another! Lydia is absolutely incredible at doing hair and make up, she made me feel like a princess! I felt so confident in my dress and I just couldn't wait to get out and meet all the other girls and get drunk and celebrate in style! Although we had prinks at mine they were tiny compared to our Manchester prinks, but I think the three of us knew the rest of the night was going to be pretty heavy!
   Seeing everyone just made my ridiculously happy. We were all jumping on each other and screaming and catching up, it was honestly just perfect! The whole night was a massive laugh and I just enjoyed myself so so much! Kettering night life might be absolutely appalling compared to Manchester, but being reunited with my girls and bumping into loads of old school friends make it a hell of a lot more enjoyable! Remarkably I can remember the majority of the night given the 13 jager bombs I had amongst other drinks, probably because my friends are more into pacing drinks throughout the night than we are in Manchester!
   My girls made sure my birthday celebrations were perfect, and I'm so happy to be home for Christmas.






Saturday 20 December 2014

Homeward Bound Again

   Today signals the end of my first semester at university as it is finally time to go home for Christmas! It's crazy to think I've been living in Manchester for three months now, and although I didn't want to come at first I've met the most amazing people and my course is incredibly, so I'm definitely glad that I did! It's become my second home and I know that I'll miss it tremendously over Christmas, and I'll especially miss all my friends! They've helped me settle in so well and they've made uni so enjoyable for me, we're gonna have to do something massive when we're all back in February to celebrate being reunited!
   Yesterday evening after my present opening session with my parents - I was a very lucky girl! - I took them to the Christmas Markets so they could pick up some last minute bits they needed for at home. It was my seventh visit there, so once again definitely go along next year if you get the chance to! Despite the fact it rained at points, it was just so lovely to be reunited with my parents in my new home, and I felt really grown up showing them round! Afterwards we went to Cromer for dinner, somewhere I've never been but my dad recommended, and the food was lush and not overly expensive - so I'll definitely be going there again when there's an occasion for it! It was lovely to spend the evening catching up with my parents and celebrating my birthday, because it was bizarre spending the actual day without them!
   On the way home mum and dad surprised me with a visit to their friends Carl and Dawn's for lunch. Carl and Dawn bought one of our dog Maisie's puppies this summer, and renamed her Rosie, and it's lovely being able to go and visit her seeing as she lives so close to Manchester! She's absolutely adorable and remembers us all! Lunch was Staffordshire oatcakes with smoked bacon, mushrooms and cheese and it was absolutely amazing! It was lush being able to relax and enjoy myself knowing I've finished uni for Christmas! I cannot wait to be reunited with my girls this evening, I've missed them so much whilst we've all been at uni and I can't wait to see their faces again!


Friday 19 December 2014

I'm 19!

   So after what seems like forever, my 19th birthday has finally arrived! Yesterday saw me turn 19 at long last! I know that everyone has to wait 12 months for their birthday, but when you're a December baby it seems like you have to wait much longer compared to everybody else! Our uni breaks up for Christmas tomorrow, and the majority of my friends went home yesterday, so therefore I properly celebrated my birthday on the Wednesday. It took lots of preparation but it was well worth it because I had the best night!
   As I've mentioned in previous posts, prinks is a massive part of student life. Therefore, I decided to start the evening with prinks in my flat, which hardly any of my uni friends have ever actually been in because it's normally inhabited by my male flat mates! However, as it was my birthday Amber and I decided it was our turn to take it over and make it look incredibly girly! We hung pink and silver balloons in bunches around the room, two birthday banners including an incredible "party with my bitches" banner from Urban Outfitters, made raspberry vodka jelly shots and then covered the table in coloured shot glasses, pink paper cups and red and white paper straws. For anyone who knows me, they'll know it was very me! In true Eleanor style I turned up to my own party after everyone else had arrived because I took forever getting ready! So everyone made me take a load of shots to catch up! It was just a massive laugh having everyone together, and not everyone was coming out with us after, so it lovely to all be together for a part of the evening to celebrate my evening. Amber surprised me with a birthday cake because she's the best flat mate ever! It was a pink velvet cake which was not only absolutely delicious but also went with my theme!


 

   We chose to go to Fifth as it was student night there, and although it's not the best venue in Manchester it was cheap drinks and packed and I was tipsy enough not to care! I can't really remember much about Fifth at all if I'm honest...
   Amazingly I woke up feeling fresh as a daisy on Thursday, so thankfully I got to celebrate my actual birthday without a hangover! Unfortunately I had an assignment in for today, so I had to spend the morning finalising that and getting it sent off. Then I got to spend the afternoon opening presents from my friends who hadn't gone home and popped in to see me, and watching films with Amber. Then I cooked dinner for Amber, Abi and I - sweet potato jacket potatoes with my mum's homemade chilli! It was just such a lush, lazy, relaxed day, I honestly couldn't have asked for a better birthday!
   I get to see my parents this afternoon so I'm incredibly excited to get my presents from them and go out for dinner with them. My birthday is going to be spread over 5 days this year, and it's going to be fabulous from start to finish! I've been thoroughly spoilt by my uni friends, and I couldn't have asked to spend my birthday in better company. I can't wait to be reunited with my parents and spend tomorrow evening being reunited and getting tipsy with my home girls!




Tuesday 16 December 2014

Christmas Shopping On A Student Budget

   With Christmas just over a week away, I decided it was about time I got round to writing a post to help students get everyone the perfect presents - without breaking the bank! Christmas seems to be the most common time of year for students to enter their overdraft, and obviously that's somewhere no student wants to end up! At uni we've had a few birthdays in the lead up to Christmas, making it an even more expensive time of year for us! Therefore I put together a few tips which will hopefully help you keep your Christmas as low cost, yet still as magical as possible.

Do They Really Need It?
   It sounds really obvious, but the first question you should ask yourself before buying anyone a present, is do they really need it? You might think your dad will really suit those knitted santa socks, but has he got round to wearing the pair you bought him last year yet?! Just because it's nice doesn't mean they actually need it, and if you know it's going to be used/worn once and then put in a drawer somewhere - don't bother wasting your money! Sentimental presents may be more expensive, but it's definitely worth getting something that you know will be thoroughly used/worn, rather than just a tacky cheap present.

Go Joint
   Talking of sentimental presents, a good way to deal with the money issue they tend to come with is to go joint. I'm the only child at uni, so all of my friends could go joint with siblings to get something special for their parents. For a few birthday presents I've gone joint with my friend Ruth so that we could afford to get something a bit more special for our friends, because we'd rather that than get them something little and rubbish! Another benefit of going joint, is that your sibling might have a really good present idea when you can't think of anything!

Secret Santa
   When it comes to buying presents for friends at Christmas, Secret Santa is the perfect way to go! Being a big group of friends at uni it's the best way for us to go about ensuring everyone gets a present and no one feels left out. Simply set yourself a minimum and maximum budget, pick names out of a hat, and get buying!

Shop Around
   This is something I learnt after visiting Manchester Christmas Markets a few times. I saw a fur headband on one stall for £25, and then found the exact same one on another stall 20 minutes later for £10! If you're shopping at markets then definitely check out all the stalls before making any purchases, because you'll see the same things on several different stalls for completely different prices! For things like DVDs and CDs I recommend checking out Amazon, as they tend to be the cheapest place to get them from! Just shop around and make sure you do your research instead of making impulse purchases and wasting money.

Return Towards The End
   As well as shopping around, I also recommend going back when it's coming up to the end of Christmas Markets. Due to the large quantities of stock that the store holders tend to take, prices are usually slashed in the last week so that they can sell as much of it as possible. I'm planning on going back tomorrow to get my last few bits, and I'm expecting to pay about half the original price! Some people may see it as unorganised leaving it so last minute to get presents, but as a student saving money is incredibly important to avoid going into my student loan!

Christmas Eve Sales
   If you fancy leaving it really last minute, then my final piece of advice is to go and hit the Christmas Eve Sales! I've never actually done it myself, but I have a few friends at home who have a tendency to go, and the bargains they come away with are unbelievable! I'd recommend having a few presents already bought as it is a bit risky... It tends to be really good for smellies and beauty products though!

   Christmas shopping on a student budget is incredibly easy, you just need to use your common sense!

Monday 15 December 2014

Old Trafford

   So I've only gone and got myself a job at last! I'm so excited to have got myself a hospitality job at Manchester United! It may only be casual work, as I'll only be called in on match days, but it's good day and an amazing place to be working, plus the atmosphere on match days is unbelievable!
   First of all I had a phone interview, which I've dealt with before when I applied for my old job at Next. However, having never worked in hospitality I did have to completely blag my way through it, as well as be honest that I'd never worked in hospitality before so didn't really have a clue what to expect! My interviewer seemed to like me though, as he said that despite my lack of experience he still wanted to give me a proper interview as I sounded as though I knew what I was talking about!
   Therefore, last Thursday I had my interview at Manchester United. Having never been to the stadium before it's safe to say I was very overwhelmed when I arrived - it's absolutely massive! Despite the fact it was a Thursday, and not a match day, it was absolutely heaving with people going to look round the shop and museum, it's a massive enterprise! When I'd eventually found out where I was supposed to be going, and eventually found my way there, I had to fill in a ridiculous amount of paperwork, but then you seem to have to with the majority of jobs these days. Then it was finally time to have my interview. I hadn't actually been that nervous beforehand, but when I got into the lift to go up to my interview room I found myself feeling very nervous about it! Although I've had face to face interviews before, they've never been for a job, so I didn't really know what to expect from it! Thankfully though it was very straightforward, and my interviewer was really friendly and put me at ease. I was asked ten questions to do with how I would deal with different situations, what I thought was needed in a good team, and what skills I would be able to bring to the team that I thought would benefit them. Each question was scored out of 10, and the higher you scored the more likely you were to get a job! Thankfully, my answers seemed to be good enough and I was offered the job there and then!
   This Thursday saw me have my training. It's ridiculous how much there is to learn in order to be a waitress! However, Manchester United do train us to a much higher standard due to the number of stars that walk through their doors - so we have to make sure we do everything to perfection first time round! We were shown several presentations about what we should expect from Manchester United, and what they should expect from us, as well as lots of information on our uniform and presentation. Then we were split into our job groups and trained. My default suite is the 1999 suite, where members pay £3000 per season for their seat at one of the tables! Therefore we have to ensure that their service is immaculate. We were shown how to properly polish glasses and set the tables, as well as how to take food orders, serve wine and food, open champagne and keep on top of four or five tables all at once. It was a lot to take in, and annoyingly it's one of those jobs where you can't properly learn it until you're doing it, so I'm going to be feeling under a lot of pressure when it comes round to my first match day! Hopefully things will run smoothly though, I hate embarrassing myself, especially in such a formal atmosphere!
   After being told I wouldn't be working the match yesterday because I can't work the Boxing Day Match, I got a text to say I'd been booked! Safe to say I was absolutely shitting it as I hadn't been expecting my first shift to come round so quickly! The match was between Liverpool and Manchester United - so it definitely wasn't a small match to have on your first shift! Kick off was at 1:30pm, so I had to be there at 9:30am to go and log in, get my lunch, and go and set up my tables ready for the doors to open at 10:30am. Once I'd eventually found my way to the 1999 suite, I got told I'd be a runner for the day as I had no experience in hospitality and it was such a big match. However, I was called to my floor manager after an hour of beginning to set up the food, and told that I was being moved to a floor that didn't have enough staff. There I was thinking I was being moved to another suite, but it turned out I was being moved to a box! Not just a fan's box either, Michael Carrick's box... I was petrified. My first ever shift in hospitality and I was serving a footballer's family who was playing that match. No pressure! I spent the whole shift running around getting them more food and clearing away plates and dishes before replacing them with new ones and making sure the fridge stayed stocked up - my feet were ready to fall off by the time it got to 5:30!
   Despite the major pressure of serving Michael Carrick's family, I had a really enjoyable day and I'm looking forward to my next shift! Everyone was lovely and made me feel really welcome, plus they kept an eye on me and made sure I did everything I needed to and did it correctly. It was an incredibly tiring day but it was well worth it, and having served a footballer's family I think I can take on 5 fan tables in a suite next time!

Thursday 11 December 2014

Rowing Christmas Dinner

   So yesterday saw both the Fresher and Senior rowing teams unite for the Rowing Club Christmas Dinner. After a pretty successful first few months for all four teams, we decided it was time to let our hair down and celebrate together. Our meal was booked at the Slug and Lettuce, somewhere I've never been before, so I was looking forward to trying somewhere new!
   We'd already preordered from the christmas menu, which made the whole event a lot more straightforward. I chose to order Camembert for my starter, turkey for my main, and chocolate and amaretto cheesecake for my dessert. We'd got a special offer on bottles of wine, which allowed us to have 15 bottles between our four tables for £6 each. For someone who's never been a big wine fan I ended up having a whole bottle to myself! They also had cocktails on a buy one get one free offer, so Ruth and I paired up and shared the cost of the cocktails between us. We ended up having 5 each... They were lush though! I find in a lot of restaurants that the cocktails aren't presented nicely or they're not blended properly, but the Slug and Lettuce definitely know how to make cocktails! My favourite cocktail by far was a Merry Cherry - a limited edition Christmas cocktail. It was made up of Absolute Cherrys, Disaronno and Coca-Cola, and came served in a Christmas bauble! I definitely recommend you get one if you're ever in a Slug and Lettuce around Christmas, it's a classic cocktail and the bauble is just such a cute way of serving it!
   The food itself was also really good, especially bearing in mind that they were producing it for a lot of us! The only thing that I was disappointed with was the fact it was fried Camembert, rather than one big one served with lots of bread to dip in! However, given the size of our group that would have been rather expensive to produce, so I can understand why they went for the more simplistic way of serving it... It certainly made me feel festive, as it hasn't really felt like December much this month! Being altogether eating turkey, drinking, pulling crackers and wearing paper crowns just made it feel much more special and much more like Christmas was coming!
   After the meal we went to Revolution on Deansgate to properly relax and dance off all the food we'd just eaten! We all began to sober up pretty quickly, as we'd started drinking so early, which was properly a good thing on behalf of all of our livers! It was raining and being typical Manchester weather, but overall it was an amazing evening, and the perfect way to celebrate a first semester for us new rowers! We've all improved so much over the past few months, and we've become like a little family, particularly since bonding with the seniors. I know that next semester we'll continue to become a stronger team, and I can't wait to race again and to have another rowing social.

Tuesday 9 December 2014

Coping With Fresher's Flu (And Various Other Illnesses)

   Now that we're getting into winter, everyone seems to becoming ill. Thankfully I have a pretty decent immune system, so I seem to have avoided everything at the moment, but I still thought it'd be worth doing a post on how my friends have survived the various illnesses they've had between them. Also, despite the fact I've now been at uni for three months, I thought it'd still be useful to mention coping with fresher's flu.

Fresher's Flu
   It's guaranteed that at least one of you is going to get fresher's flu during freshers. Up to two weeks of constant partying, lack of sleep and heavy drinking is definitely going to take its toll on your body, and not everyone's body is going to be cut out to handle it. Amazingly, I don't actually think anyone in our friendship group got fresher's flu, but a few of my friends at other universities did. I think the main reason we all managed to avoid is because we didn't go out every night, we had flat parties some nights meaning we didn't have as late a night, and some nights we just stayed in and didn't drink at all. If you do end up being one of the unlucky ones who gets fresher's flu, the most obvious advice is to have a couple of days away from alcohol and eating properly, because all the fast food you'll eat during freshers won't help either. A few days catching up on sleep and allowing your body to recover will set you up to enjoy the rest of freshers with all your friends instead of making yourself even worse!

Alcohol Poisoning
   Similarly, it's pretty likely that one of you will end up with alcohol poisoning. Due to the buzz and general craziness of freshers week, it's unlikely you'll monitor how much you're drinking, and it'll definitely have an impact on your body. I think doctors recommend a month or so of no alcohol in order to allow your body to recover, and it's key that you ensure you stick to that, because there's no point making yourself worse because you're desperate to go out again! Catching up on sleep and eating loads of carby foods to soak up all the alcohol in your system are guaranteed to make you feel better after a few weeks, and then you can go back to drinking in moderation! Your body's supposed to last you a lifetime, so there's no point destroying it during freshers!

Flu
   Two of my friends have had the flu whilst we've been at uni, and my advice for that is very straightforward. Lots of sleep, layers and fluids! We made sure that my friends were wrapped in loads of layers and blankets with the heating on full and provided them bucketfuls of soup and tea to get them better as soon as possible! They themselves made sure they got as much as sleep as possible, and that definitely helped them get better a lot quicker than others who didn't get as much sleep as they should have been! As I keep reiterating, it's vital you give your body the full time it needs to recover, because then you'll be back on your feet much sooner than you will if you try and tell yourself you're okay and don't get your rest!

Winter Vomiting Bug
   None of my uni friends have had this fortunately, but one of my friends back home has, so I thought I should mention it. The symptoms are mainly similar to the flu, so again, lots of sleep, layers and fluids! I'd recommend not eating for the first 24 hours, because my friend couldn't keep it down and it made her feel even worse! So steer clear of food for the first 24 hours, and then try something light, like a slice of toast. If you manage to keep that down after 2 hours or so then try something else - whatever you do don't overindulge or go for heavy, rich foods, because you won't be able to keep them down and you'll be back at square one again!

   Basically, my advice for coping with all of them is the same - make sure you get plenty of sleep, drink plenty of fluids, non-alcoholic please, and keep warm! You may feel lazy and get bored having a week in bed, but it's much better spending a week in bed rather than three or so weeks feeling awful because you didn't let your body recover properly in the first place!

Monday 8 December 2014

Assignment Time

   Unfortunately for university students, the lead up to Christmas also means the lead up to assignment deadlines. The time of year that should be full of festive activities ends up full of stressed students trying not to kill each other in the rush to get assignments in on time and to a reasonable standard. Therefore I'm going to give you my top tips on how not to work yourself up when it comes round to meeting deadlines. This won't be the longest post because a lot of my tips relate to things I've already spoken about in previous posts, but hopefully it will be able to help you in some way.

Prioritise
   Probably the most important thing to do before you even start your assignments is to prioritise them. Which assignment has to be in first, which assignment involves the most planning, which assignment involves the most work overall - if you prioritise before you start you will save yourself a lot of unnecessary stress later on. Similarly, if you get the harder, bulkier parts of your assignments done first, and leave the smaller, not as important parts until last, you'll feel a lot more relaxed about them.

Relax
   It's incredibly important that you don't forget to relax during deadline season. You can't expect your body to be able to cope with you sitting in front of the computer day after day for hours on end hammering out an essay, not only will you be exhausted but it won't be up to your full potential. I mentioned loads of different ways to relax and de-stress in a previous post, so give that a read to make sure you clear your mind every once in a while to help see your assignments from a different angle.

Set Your Own Deadline
   For my first uni assignment I set myself the deadline of getting it submitted 24 hours before the university deadline. I'm actually really glad I did this, because I felt so much more relaxed on the Friday knowing I'd already submitted it, whilst all my friends were panicking in their hurry to get it finished on time. I'm planning on doing this with all my assignments now, because in my opinion it's better to get it in in plenty of time and then be able to relax than be trying to submit it minutes before the deadline and risk your computer crashing, consequently meaning you get marked as a late entry.

Reward Yourself
   Again, this is something I touched upon briefly in a previous post, but I decided to reiterate it as I believe it's important. My 19th birthday is the day before my final assignment is due in, and so my reward to myself for getting all my assignments done is having a party and spending the day with all my closest uni friends. I know that if I don't get my assignment done in time I'm going to be spending my birthday at uni editing my TV package, which I can assure you is the last way I want to be celebrating turning 19. Therefore, I definitely recommend you give yourself something to work towards. Whether it's a flat party or just end of assignment drinks with your course mates, something to work towards and to motivate you to do well is definitely a good move.

   Basically, the sooner you get your head done and focus on your assignments, the sooner you can go out and enjoy yourself again and the better you will feel about it. Deadlines tend to be spread out over three or so weeks, and they are long and tedious, but it's only three weeks of your life, so just work hard and hopefully you'll be rewarded for it.

Sunday 7 December 2014

White Rose Head 2014

   Yesterday saw me in my second rowing race, the White Rose Head 2014. I was ridiculously excited to be racing again, because despite injuring myself in my first one, the adrenaline rush and the atmosphere of a race is absolutely incredible. Once again, we were up at 6am to meet everyone at 7am and set off for York. Instead of going in cars, this time we had a minibus, and I think more or less everyone slept on the journey there! Despite the fact we all had hundreds of layers on it still didn't keep us warm, it was absolutely freezing! All any of us wanted to do was get set up, on the water and race as quickly as possible.
   Despite being freshers, we were racing as seniors, due to the fact we had our captain, Ciara, in our boat, and York know from last year that she's a senior. However, Ciara said we shouldn't let this put us off as she would compare our time with the other freshers instead. When we began rigging up BSE it all started to go wrong. In order to split her on Friday night to go on the trailer, the footplate at number 4 had to be removed and then put back on after she'd been split. However, when the footplate had been reattached it hadn't been tightened as securely as it should have been. This meant that when she was on the trailer travelling to York the vibrations had caused the footplate to come loose and it had fallen off. Obviously you can't row when you're missing a footplate... There was absolutely no way we were going to be able to race at 10:30am as we were supposed to, and despite hunting for a spare footplate there weren't any as they're not really something you tend to carry around with you. Therefore, Ellen and Frankie went on a hunt to borrow a boat we could use, as there was no way we could race with BSE. It's safe to say it was a very stressful and hectic morning, none of us knew what was happening! Ellen and Frankie couldn't find us a boat to allow us to race in Division 1, but they could get us one for Division 2, but this meant we would need a different cox, as both Ellen and Charlie were either racing or coxing in Division 2. This is when all the chaos really started! Ciara went running round asking everyone if they had a spare cox, and the University of Hull came to our rescue, providing us with both a cox and a boat for Division 2, so we were going to be able to race after all!
   It was all a bit hectic from then on, as we only had nine minutes to get in the water before penalties started, and we were all in an unfamiliar boat with an unfamiliar cox and it was all just a bit crazy! Anyway, we managed to get to our starting position, the penultimate boat, and then had to sit and wait until it was our turn to start. It's safe to say by the time we did start we were absolutely freezing so were desperate to get warmed up! It was a slightly shorter race than in Cheshire, only 3km instead of 4. We were in a men's boat which was absolutely rubbish because the shoes are soooo much bigger than in a woman's, but we all managed and we were all really impressed with how well we kept a decent rate going throughout. It was just the most amazing feeling to be racing again, and I didn't catch a crab this time so I was absolutely over the moon about that! We got a lot of support from Hull supporters, as being in their boat and having their cox, I think we confused everyone a fair bit!
   After we'd finished we went back and surprised Abi with her birthday cake and just had a laugh on the journey back. Then it was all about getting showered and ready to go out and celebrate Abi's birthday! Overall, it was just the most amazing day and it was the most incredible feeling to be racing again. I could definitely tell I'd improved since the last race, and how much the intensive training last weekend benefited me as well as I felt my technique was much sharper than it has been previously. We were absolutely over the moon to find out we'd gone and won, bring on the next one!



Chef Eleanor

   This past week has actually seen me do something I never usually do, and cook proper meals for myself and others. For the first time since being at university I've really been in the mood to cook, and so I decided to offer to do it for other people. Despite the fact none of the dishes were particularly difficult to make, they went down really well, and I felt much better myself for having eaten a proper meal!
   Originally on Thursday I was going to be cooking for myself, Amber and Ruth. However, Ruth caught the flu and has been really ill, so I ended up just cooking for myself and Amber. I was in quite a fishy mood, so I settled for salmon served with lemon butter, sweet potato fries and cauliflower cheese. I am aware that it looks completely unappealing, but it was soooo good! It was really filling and tasty and I'm just really proud of myself that it actually turned out okay and that we both enjoyed it and that neither of us have ended up ill because of it!
   On Friday I cooked for myself and Amber again. When my mum last came up to visit she brought two massive tubs of homemade chilli with her. I'm currently in the process of trying to get through all the food in my freezer, as I realised the other day that I have a fair bit, so I decided it was time to use up some of the chilli. Instead of being stereotypical and having it with rice, I decided to go for jacket potatoes instead. Amber and I were both incredibly hungry so we cheated and put them in the microwave for 10 minutes to cook them through before transferring them to the oven to allow the skins to crisp up. Then we served them with the chilli, soured cream and cheese. It's safe to say it was absolutely incredible, it was such a good combination! We were both ridiculously full afterwards but I'm definitely going to be having it again, it was so so lush!! I read online that sweet potatoes are a really good alternative for jacket potatoes, so I think I'm going to try it that way next time! It also used up a lot of chilli, so hopefully my freezer will be a bit emptier in the next few days!
   Finally, it was Abi's birthday yesterday, so Ruth and I decided to bake her a cake. I'm aware this makes me a baker and not a chef but that's besides the point. We decided to cheat and use Betty Crocker cake mix, but we still put a lot of effort into it! I didn't take a picture of it, which I should have done because it looked so so impressive! We went for a chocolate cake mix and when it had cooled down we completely covered it with chocolate butter cream icing and white chocolate buttons. Amazingly, it wasn't actually too sickly at all! It went down really well with everyone who tried it, so bring on the next birthday and the next cake!!
   I do feel a lot better for having had two proper meals this week, and both Amber and I and Ruth and I are debating cooking meals together once a week, to make sure we all have at least one proper meal. It's a lot nicer cooking with and for someone else rather than just yourself, plus it means I tend to be more experimental!


Friday 5 December 2014

How To Handle University Stress

   Stress will hit everyone at some point whilst they're at university and have deadlines looming. However, it's something that affects everyone in different ways, and everyone has different ways of handling it, or not. I for one am someone who gets incredibly stressed when it comes to assignments and exams, and I can turn quite vile if I let it get on top of me too much. I'm aware it's not pleasant for those around me, and therefore I came up with techniques to help me handle my stress levels and keep me much calmer. They may not work for everyone, but I'm going to share them with you anyway just in case they do in some way.

Take A Break
   This is by far the most obvious, but I tend to get so absorbed in focusing on my work and stressing when I don't understand it that I tend to completely forget to take a break and will go about 4 hours attempting to work but not actually getting very far with it. It's recommended that you take a 10 minute break for every 50 minutes that you work as that's the time period that your brain works best with, however, obviously this will different for different people. Therefore, whenever you get to the stage where you can't concentrate on what you're doing or you find yourself stressing because you don't understand it, take a break. Go and get a drink or some food or text a friend, just do something for 10-20 minutes to completely take your mind off your work so you can go back to it tackle it with a clear mind.

Get Some Fresh Air
   If you're like me and get to stage where you go into complete overdrive because you forget to break, then my recommendation is to go for a walk or a run. Obviously this break will be longer than 10 minutes, I tend to aim for around half an hour to completely clear my head of all the stressed thoughts I have about my work. Not only will the fresh air wake you up after having been sat down for so long, but it will help you to relax and forget about everything for a while. Consequently, when you get back and go to continue with your work you'll be in a much better mind frame than you were previously, and much more likely to be able to tackle your work more effectively.

Set Yourself A Target
   My friend Lydia introduced me to setting targets as it was something I hadn't really considered beforehand, but it's something that has turned out to really work for me. I'll choose a piece of work and tell myself how much I want to achieve in how long before I start, for example, I may want to do three paragraphs of my essay in an hour. By setting myself the target I tend to work much more efficiently, and find that I've completed the work I wanted to do in less than my allocated time. This is a particularly useful technique to use when you have somewhere to be at a certain time, or a certain TV programme you really want to watch, as you're working towards being able to do something, which is usually pretty big motivation for the majority of people.

Give Yourself A Reward
   This is pretty similar to the last part of the previous technique. Aiming towards a reward is another great motivational technique. Whether it's a TV programme you want to watch or a massive bar of Dairy Milk if you finish the essay, knowing that unless you've done the work you're aiming to do you're not going to be able to watch it or have it is a surefire way to get your brain into gear.

Yoga
   Relaxation is incredibly important when you're stressed as you need to clear your mind of all the negative energy in order to be able to focus properly. Similarly to getting fresh air, yoga is another fab way of doing this. I'm not talking going to a weekly yoga class, although you could if you wanted to, the beauty of yoga is that you can do it in the comfort of your own home. YouTube is filled with thousands of videos that yoga instructors upload for all abilities, so you just need to search around to find the ones that appeal to you the most and you find the most enjoyable. 20 minutes of yoga will put you in a brilliant mindset, as well as helping you get fitter. The beauty of yoga is that is also helps you with your breathing, which will help destress you as well once it's properly under control.

Spend Time With Friends
   Like I mentioned in my homesickness post, your university friends will be going through exactly the same feelings as you, they just might not make them as obvious as you. It's highly likely that they too are going to be stressed about upcoming deadlines, so spending some time together is a great way to destress one another. Whether it's watching TV or cooking a meal together, having some time surrounded by your friends and away from all the work you have to do will take your mind off things and let you relax for the evening. Plus, being at university your friends are the most important people in your lives, so it's essential that you don't let stress and work get the better of you and that you still allow yourself to spend time with them and be yourself.

Downtime
   Having some proper downtime to yourself is also vitally important. Whether it's reading a book or listening to some music, you need to ensure you have at least 30 minutes per evening completely to yourself. Some people may use this time to reflect, but I prefer to text relax and forget about everything that's going on around me. It really is important that you let yourself have some you time, so don't let anyone make you feel selfish for wanting to do it, one of the most important things in life is to love yourself and look after yourself, and having some time alone is a fantastic way to destress and trust me, you'll feel so much better for it the following morning.

   Overall, there are hundreds of different ways to destress and relax during busy time periods, but it's up to you as a person to try them and see which work best for you. You need to ensure that you do spend time relaxing during a busy day or week, otherwise you'll stress yourself out even more and the whole situation will end up escalating and turning out a lot worse than it would have done if you'd simply had some time away from the workload.


Thursday 4 December 2014

How To Handle Being Homesick

   I've realised that recently I haven't done any proper blog posts of how to handle being an actual student, I've written more about my recent experiences. Therefore, for my next few posts I'm going to focus more on what to expect as a student and how to deal with those situations. As a student myself I feel I would have benefited having more advice on what to expect and how to cope with it, which is why I'm going to do it for prospective students.
   I've mentioned being homesick a few times in previous posts, and therefore I thought this should be the issue I first tackle. Regardless of how often you tell yourself you won't get homesick and you won't miss your parents because they've driven you crazy and you want to be away from them, trust me, you will get homesick at some point. It's different for everyone how long it takes to hit them, so I can't give you a precise time, but for most people it tends to be either after the first couple of months, or in the lead up to Christmas.
   The first major thing you need to remember, is that you shouldn't be embarrassed because you're homesick. Everyone will get homesick at some point, some people will just be better at keeping it behind closed doors than others. It's nothing to be embarrassed of, no matter how close or far away you are from home, you're away from your parents who've looked after you for the past 18 years, so it's going to be a bit of a shock having to fend for yourself all of a sudden! Thankfully, there are several really simple steps to help you deal with it and prevent you from becoming an emotional mess.

Skype/Facetime/Phone Call
   The first, and probably the most obvious solution is to get in contact with them. I know this doesn't work for everyone as for some people seeing or talking to their parents will make it worse, but I find that this really works for me as hearing their voices and seeing them puts me at ease.
   Some people may not want to actually see their parents, and therefore a phone call would be the best solution as you'll be able to hear them and talk to them without having to actually look at them. However, other people will prefer to be able to actually see them, as it makes it seem almost as if they're actually there with you.
   It's amazing how much a phone call can change how you feel. Just hearing or seeing them and being able to find comfort in that is often enough to tie people over until they can next see their parents, as you have heard or seen that they are well, and that they miss you just as much as you miss them!

Friends
   Spending time with your new university friends is a great way to take your mind off being homesick, as they most likely don't have any connections with your home and consequently you don't associate them with it. Throwing yourself into university life and focusing on having a laugh with them and enjoying yourself is sure to take your mind off home, not permanently, but long enough for the initial aching pang to go away.
Chances are that they are probably homesick too, so by spending time together you'll be able to help take each other's minds off it. Seriously, you won't be the only one in your friendship group who's homesick.

Day Out/Weekend Visit
   If you've gone to a university quite close to home then this is an obvious and easy option. Simply pop on the train, or get your parents to, and either go home for the day or the weekend, or get them to come to you! Spending a day or couple of days with them will make you feel better and then you'll be ready to go back to university feeling a lot happier having seen them.
   For people like me, being 150 miles away from home, this is an absolute last resort. Therefore, try the previous two steps first to see if they help, and if they don't and you truly are desperately homesick then arrange with your parents to either go home or for them to come and visit. My parents have visited twice and it's been so lovely to have them here rather than me go home, and I've found I've been much less homesick after they've left than I have been coming back to Manchester after visiting home. I love being able to show them round Manchester and it just helps to make me feel a lot more settled and remind myself that actually I am coping really well on my own.
   Similarly, if you have friends at universities nearby then arrange to see them! Jess and I were both getting a bit homesick, and as she's only an hour away on the train I popped up to visit her for the day and we both felt so much better for it! Seeing someone from home, despite being in completely new surroundings, was so lovely, and it definitely helped us both through to when we could next see our families.

   As I've reiterated several times throughout this post, there is no way you are going to be the only person who's homesick. It's simply a case of it hitting different people at different times and being handling things in different ways, but it will hit them eventually. You definitely shouldn't be ashamed just because you only lasted a week before you got homesick whereas your flat mate has lasted 3 months, because chances are deep down he's homesick, he's just putting on a front and telling himself he isn't so he doesn't have to face the ache you feel, because it's not pleasant being homesick.
   It's also important that you remember that your parents will be missing you just as much as you're missing them, they're not going to have forgotten about you just because you've gone to university! The house will be very quiet without you and they're going to be adapting to massive changes just like you are. My three steps will hopefully enough to get you through being homesick, and make you feel much better and ready to continue developing as an independent adult.

Tuesday 2 December 2014

Eleanor The Producer

   During TV News last week we were told that in today's lesson we would be creating and streaming a 6 minute long TV broadcast. For some reason unknown to myself I nominated myself as producer, and it's safe to say that I definitely was not aware of the amount of work that that was going to ensue. I was in charge of choosing the packages and ulays, writing all the scripts and getting everything uploaded into iNEWS and making sure that everything ran to time so that our programme was definitely 6 minutes long. Having other assignments to work on at the some time made it even more stressful, so I didn't actually get round to doing any before it got to today. Therefore I was very panicky during our lecture, but we managed to pull it off in the end and it was definitely worth it!
   Inzy had created a package on Phillip Hughes for TV News this afternoon, so I snapped up the opportunity to use it as soon as he offered. Faye and I had discussed having our second package focusing on the Christmas Markets, and as she already had some footage she brought it along so we could add a voice over and then use that. As for ulays, none of us had a clue what to do them on, and as producer I was finding it very stressful trying to come up with the ideas myself. Then Inzy suggested creating one on the delays to the train lines yesterday, so he found photos for that whilst I created the script. Then it hit me that Black Friday was huge in Manchester last week, so I set Libby and Chantelle to work finding photos and asked Abi to find out facts and write a script for that. So finally we were underway! The boys had already filmed a sports piece and the weather, so thankfully that saved us some time and gave us slightly less to worry about.
   Importing it all into iNEWS was the most stressful part in my opinion, as I had to ensure it ran to precisely six minutes. Thankfully, due to a slight technical fault when we broadcast it, it did run to six minutes exactly! Sitting in the gallery watching it all being broadcast was such an amazing feeling, knowing I had, with help of course, put together a six minute TV broadcast. I feel our broadcast looked really professional and ran really smoothly, everyone seemed to know what they were doing! Despite the stress and the panic I felt in the lead up to it, I honestly wouldn't mind doing it again in the future. It's made me decide to join Quays News after Christmas and help out with all the aspects of that as I want to make sure I am experienced in all areas of broadcasting, and not just one, to put me in better stead for my future career.

Monday 1 December 2014

Hello December!

   Today marks the start of my absolute favourite month of the year, December! I absolutely adore December because it's so festive and magical, plus it seems to be the one time of year where everyone is nice to one another because no one wants to break that Christmas spirit. Not only is there Christmas to look forward to, but also my birthday the week before on the 18th and my cousin's on the 22nd, so December is a very special month for our family.
   December always marks family time for us, as we probably spend more time together over the Christmas holidays than we do the rest of the year. We always spend Christmas Day together which is always just incredible, drinking Christmas wines and ciders and playing silly games in between eating ourselves stupid with turkey and sausages and stuffing! Then we'll normally have Boxing Day together and our annual family trip to watch the Saints play rugby in Northampton a few days later. Spending time with family is really important to me, as your family are always going to be there for you when others aren't, so you need to make sure they understand how appreciated they truly are.
   December also marks Advent Calendar time! I'm such a little kid when it comes to Christmas and Advent Calendars, I look forward to them so so much! I normally use the Advent Calendar my godmother made for me. I didn't want to bring it to university with me so this year I've got a fair trade one. Hopefully my mum will be nice enough to fill up my normal one for when I go home though...
   I love the atmosphere that December brings, everything and everyone is just so festive and happy and the whole world just seems so merry. Everything seems to be better at Christmas, no matter how badly things may be going, Christmas just seems to make you forget about them all for a while. Walking round the Christmas Markets with all the fairy lights up, listening to carol singers and brass bands and drinking Baileys hot chocolate is what December is all about to me - enjoying yourself and getting into the spirit of things.
   I can officially whip out my winter coat, hat, gloves and scarf when it comes to December as well. Plus I can wear leggings and big baggy jumpers and cardigans and thick woolly socks around the place and just be super cosy all the time because it's acceptable to do so at Christmas! I can cuddle up to my puppies in front of the fire and just completely relax and forget about everything else.
   Despite the fact I'll be revising for uni exams, I'm definitely still going to make the most of it, and I know my family will make it magical for me as they always do.


Sunday 30 November 2014

Rowing Camp

   So this weekend we had an intense training camp for rowing. Both days were long, 8am-3pm and 9am-3pm, and it's safe to say they were killer! The whole aim of the weekend was to focus on our technique, so that we can therefore row to a higher standard and continue to do well in races. I've definitely noticed a difference in how I row over the weekend, so hopefully that'll put us in good stead for the race next Saturday!

Saturday 29th November
   Dragging myself out of bed at 6:30am was honestly the worst feeling in the world on a Saturday, the one day of the week I like to lie in! Plus it meant I had to walk to the bus stop in the dark, and anybody who knows me knows I hate walking when it's dark, I like to be able to see things properly!
   When we arrived we were told we were going to be doing various different sessions over the weekend, which would be overlooked by our coach Josh. Our first session was a water session. As there were only 3 of us fresher girls we were put in a boat with 5 seniors, which was really beneficial when it came to pushing ourselves and improving our technique, as we could mirror the seniors. We were lucky enough to be on the water for around 2 hours, compared to the 45 minutes we usually get. Having a longer session was so useful, as we got to put everything we were learning into practice for longer until we got it. Rowing so early in the morning was really peaceful, and it definitely woke me up too! We focused on rowing using just our arms and then building up to a quarter slide and a half slide, so that we could fully understand the order in which our body has to move to give each stroke the most power.
   Our second session was on the urgs. We had to do a power session to get us more used to just how much power we need for races, as well as help us with our recovery. We did 3 reps of 12 minutes with a 4 minute break in between - 2 minutes at rate 15, 2 minutes recovery, 2 minutes at rate 20, 2 minutes recovery, 2 minutes at rate 25 and 2 minutes recovery. By the third rep we were all pretty exhausted, but it really helped us realise how important power is to get the boat moving, and how important recovery is to get you ready for the next stroke or set of strokes at a different rate.
   Our final session was on the play boats, as there wasn't enough of us to do anything too hardcore. The play boats are one man boats, and they looked really confusing! I was feeling a bit queasy, so decided against going in as you are completely in charge of the balance and I knew I'd wobble all over the place! I loved watching everyone else in them though, and I know I'll have a go next time as they'll be good experience and may help my rowing technique even more as I'll have two oars to contend with and not just one!

Sunday 30th November
   Today wasn't quite so bad as we didn't have to be there until 9, so I got to lie in until 7:30 which I definitely appreciated! Once again the day was built up of sessions, however we didn't get a fun session today in the play boats, we had four proper sessions to work on technique and help build our strength.
   Our first session was weights. We had 8 different stations including a dead lift, bench press and plank, and we had a minute and a half to do 10 reps per station, unless of course you were planking in which case you had to plank for the full minute and a half. Once we'd completed a full circuit we had a 2 minute break before doing it again. In total we did it three times and it's safe to say I didn't think you'd sweat doing weights, but we all did! I was actually quite surprised that I could lift any of the weights as well, because for those of you that know me you'll know I'm normally pretty weak... Surprisingly I'm also looking forward to doing more weight sessions as well, as I know it'll make me a much better rower.
   For our second session we spent 20 minutes on core exercises, which has made me decide that I definitely don't have a core... After having already planked for a good four and a half minutes I was nearly in tears at the fact I had to do another two minutes. I definitely think I'm beginning to improve on core exercises however, as I now seem able to hold them for longer than I could during my first circuits session. It's actually quite a nice feeling afterwards and the following morning as well being able to feel that you've really worked them! Again, much as I may moan when I have to do them and much as I really detest having to do core work, I know it'll make me a much stronger and fitter rower, which is obviously exactly what I want to achieve!
   We had a brief break between our second and third session as Agecroft were in training their senior teams, and there aren't enough urgs for all of us! We didn't have to wait too long though as they started during our core work, so it was only around a 10 minute gap. Urg sessions tend to be the most dreaded sessions by everyone, as they're usually the most intense. Today's session was slightly easier than yesterday's. We did 3 reps of 10 minutes with a two minute break in between - 8 minutes at rate 18 and 2 minutes at race rate (I did it rate 28). Similarly to yesterday's urg session, by the time it came round to our third rep we were all pretty knackered, but again it helped us to understand the importance of pacing and recovery.
   Our final session was a water session. Normally I love going out on the water but by this point I was so exhausted I just wanted to go to bed! Instead of properly rowing we focused very heavily on technique compared to yesterday, which I definitely think we all benefited from. We started off with working on our timing, in fours we would all run up the slide and then slap our oar on the water. It took several attempts to get us in time but we got there eventually! We then worked on our posture, making sure we sit up straight and keep our arms straight for as long as possible and our hands level so that we don't unbalance the boat. This instantly made a massive difference as we had a lot more power rowing with the right posture. I got compared to a bull in a china shop at one point, as apparently my recovery up the slide was far too fast and I got told I needed to be a "cocktail waitress" and slow it all down which got a few giggles! Despite the fact we didn't get to do as much actual rowing as yesterday I felt a lot better about my technique when I left as I noticed an improvement in the boat and now I just need to make sure I remember to keep it that way!

   Overall, exhausting as the weekend was I think it was really beneficial to all of us. There's no point being fit and strong if your technique is rubbish, as you simply won't be able to row properly. I've definitely noticed improvements in my technique over the weekend, and hopefully when I next race these will become obvious and I'll become more confident. I also feel a lot fitter after all the weights, core and urg sessions, and I know that the hard work will begin to pay off soon enough!

Friday 28 November 2014

Diabetes Awareness Month

   I didn't know about this until the other day, but as something that is very close to my heart, I thought I should write a post about my own personal experiences.
   I was diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes a month before my third birthday. Normally Type 1 is genetic, however I am the first in my family to have it, so it was a bit of a shock to everyone. Having been diagnosed so young I've grown up not remembering life without it at all, which I believe has benefited me compared to people who are diagnosed later on, as they've grown up being able to eat and drink what they want without having to worry about counting their carbohydrates and injecting themselves with insulin accordingly. Similarly, not being able to remember life without it means that I just get on with it, there's nothing I can do to change it, and even if I was given the opportunity to do so I know that I wouldn't take it.
   I was bullied for being diabetic for the majority of my childhood, particularly when I got to secondary school. I was classed as "disgusting" for having to inject myself purely so that I can live. It got to the stage where I used to have my injections in the toilets so that no one would see me take them, despite the fact I can't help having to do them and people really should just learn to deal with it. Due to the bullying, I found it very hard to find friends who were willing to accept me into their friendship groups. For some absurd reason they seemed to think that as they had a phobia of needles I would inject them if ever we argued! Therefore I found it very hard to settle in and make friends, despite the fact I really can't help the fact that my pancreas just ceased working when I was younger.
  However, diabetes hasn't affected my life in as many ways as people seem to assume that it does. For example, I look like a completely normal person and I am a completely normal person, I just have one organ in my body that doesn't work, it doesn't make me an alien! I can eat the same foods as everybody else, I just can't have foods high in sugar very often, and I need to count the carbohydrates in foods so that I can ensure I have the right amount of insulin. I can still drink on nights out, I just need to make sure I have a carbohydrate based meal when I'm back to absorb the sugar in the alcohol. I can still have a normal job like everybody else, I'm just not allowed to be a pilot, bus driver, taxi driver or ferry driver, as I can't risk having a hypo and putting other people's lives at risk. I am still allowed to drive a car, I just have to take blood tests before I go anywhere, and be reassessed every three years due to potential diabetes related problems with circulation and eyesight which may affect how I drive. However, as long as I maintain good control of my diabetes, which I do, I shouldn't have any problems. Basically, I'm exactly the same as everybody else and I can lead a normal life like everybody else, I just have a few extra safety precautions.
   As I've got older I've become more willing to help families whose children have been diagnosed. Being diagnosed so young put my parents under a lot of pressure, as you can't expect a three year old to inject themselves. So my parents had to learn how to handle and cope with the injections, blood tests, carbohydrate counting, hypos and hypers. This in turn allowed them to teach me, meaning by the age of 9 I could do it by myself and was almost completely self-reliant. Helping other families and young people cope with it all gives me a massive sense of satisfaction, as I'm living proof it's not the be all and end all!
   When I was 13 years old I was incredibly lucky to be chosen to represent Kettering constituency at Diabetes UK Childrens' Lobby of Parliament for the Second Reading debate of the Schools (Health Support) Bill in London in April 2009 to raise awareness of diabetes in schools, as in schools all over the country it wasn't properly recognised and supported by staff. As a result of this Bill things have improved a lot since then. I went to London for the day and met with our MP, Philip Hollobone, to talk about diabetes and how it had affected me. I'm fortunate in that my school and surrounding schools in Kettering were aware of diabetes, but other children and families at the event were being treated appallingly and really needed to fight to change things. I had a really lovely afternoon being shown round the House of Commons and the House of Lords and was treated to free cake, I think he may have forgotten I was diabetic by this point...
   Basically, the whole point of this post is to say, yes, I have diabetes, but it doesn't really make me any different from the rest of you, because I can still do exactly the same things as you, I just have to take it into consideration and keep an eye on myself. We're not "disgusting" for having to inject ourselves at all, it's what we have to do to live, and it's human instinct to survive. We're the ones who have to live with it, not you, please remember that.

Thursday 27 November 2014

Manchester Christmas Markets

   Yesterday evening Meesha and I decided to take the bus to the Manchester Christmas Markets to give us both a break from our assignments and also to help us get into the Christmas spirit. I'd never actually heard about the Manchester Christmas Markets before moving up here, but it's safe to say that they are hugely popular, being a major topic of conversation from September, and having people from all over country travel here to take part in them.
   We started in Albert Square, which seems to be the main hub of the market and usually the busiest. The smells were absolutely incredible! The stalls are set up in little wooden huts, and the whole atmosphere is so magical, it honestly doesn't feel like you're in Manchester. Fairy lights are strung between the stalls and around the trees and it just looks so unbelievable by night. The stalls range from hot chocolate and mulled wine, to sweets, meats, cheese, bags, clothes and hot food. My favourite thing about the market was the diversity of all the cultures and food there. There were stalls from Germany, France and Spain all selling their local specialities. 
   When we arrived Meesha and I were absolutely starving, so we headed straight for the food! We were completely spoilt for choice, there was everything from pasta to burgers and we spent ages walking round and deciding what we wanted. In the end I opted for a hot pork roll and with sage and onion stuffing and apple sauce, reasonably priced at £5, while Meesha went for gnocchi served with vegetables, also £5. 
   Neither of us were actually planning on buying anything from the markets yesterday, we went more for the food and to have a look. However, I'm definitely planning on going back to purchase some presents from there closer to Christmas as so many of the stalls had the perfect little gifts for people back home! The market stretches throughout the whole of Manchester City Centre, so everywhere you go there are stalls to entice you in. There were also several brass bands and choirs which helped add to the Christmas atmosphere and just made the whole experience more magical.
   After we'd been looking for about an hour we both decided it was time for pancakes, so we went to Meesha's favourite stall and had mini Dutch pancakes with Nutella, which cost us £4 each. Nothing can beat Nutella and pancakes! What really surprised me was how reasonably priced all the food was, I was expecting to be forking out a lot more money, but I suppose they get a ridiculous amount of customers over the 4 weeks that it is open. Similarly the majority of the stalls are reasonably priced, although I do recommend looking around properly before rushing into buying things, as I saw the same faux fur headband on several different stalls, all offering it at different prices! 
   The market closed at 8 and as we both began to get tired of walking round and the temperature started to get colder we decided it was a respectable time to get ourselves a Bailey's hot chocolate. Over the past few weeks at university this has become my absolute favourite drink, I can't get enough of them! Nearly all the stalls offered hot chocolate with Bailey's or rum, it's definitely a very Christmassy drink! These cost £6, as instead of getting them in takeaway coffee cups you get them in proper little mugs specially designed for the Christmas Market! You can return these afterwards for £2 back, but why wouldn't you want the souvenir and a cute little Christmas mug?! 
   Overall I definitely recommend that anyone considering coming to Manchester for the Christmas Markets does so, because I can assure you that they are well worth it. I'll definitely be going back within the next few weeks to purchase some presents and just throw myself back into that magical atmosphere. If you can't make this year then make sure you come along next year, it's definitely one of those events that you just have to go to, and it appeals to everyone as the stalls are just so diverse with their target demographics. It's a taste of Christmas all over the world, all compacted into Manchester City Centre.



Monday 24 November 2014

Dirty Dancing With Katie

   Last week I went home for a few days to spend time with my family and have a catchup with a few of my friends. I've recently become very homesick at uni, probably with it coming up to Christmas, so being able to go back for a little while was definitely needed.
   I'd arranged from the beginning that I was going to see Katie again. However, this time, instead of going to the Kino Lounge as we usually do, we decided to have a girlie evening in with a film and ice cream. Katie was absolutely horrified when I told her I'd never seen Dirty Dancing, it's appalling I know, so she decided she was going to take the responsibility to introduce me to it. It's safe to say it is the most beautiful film I have ever seen. Having felt pretty emotional before I even turned up to Katie's, there were plenty of tears whilst watching it, it honestly really pulled my heartstrings! Patrick Swayze is the most incredible actor, and Johnny and Baby's relationship is just so beautiful and it made me all soppy and emotional! Two 18 year old girls, ice cream and a film like that is definitely not a good combination!
   However, I enjoyed the film so much I went and bought my own copy to take back to uni with me, which resulted in me watching it with mum the following evening!



Friday 14 November 2014

C&D Productions

   Following on from my interview with Katie, this week I decided to interview my friend Chris Lynch, who runs local theatre company C&D Productions. Similarly to Katie's interview, I chose open-ended questions so that Chris could answer them in-depth and give you a proper feel for what C&D Productions is all about, I definitely recommend you go and check them out! 

What inspired you to start C&D Productions?
   I think we wanted to do things differently to how we had seen many local theatre groups or societies do. Having been involved in theatre for four years taught us a lot and gave us a great grounding in the pitfalls we saw first-hand doing other shows. We ultimately wanted to provide a fun, relaxed environment for people to perform and produce good theatre, without all the cliques and drama behind the scenes which we had seen elsewhere. We also wanted to focus on straight acting, so thus far we have performed a mix of classic and contemporary plays. The reason being that the local area is saturated with groups performing musicals (of varying standards) and with a few exceptions it seems they all pick their shows from quite a limited pool of choice. Hairspray for instance will be performed both at amateur and professional levels 4-5 times throughout 2015.
   We also wanted to try and encourage new people to get involved with theatre. In some productions we see the same faces show after show, regardless of whether they all suit or fit the play/musical. In every production we have so far performed we have had 40-50% of the cast members having never been on stage before. This helps local theatre on many levels, it ensures the local performing pool is added to so it doesn't grow stale and stagnant and it will hopefully start to build a new audience for shows locally.

What do you aim to achieve with C&D Productions?
   Obviously I’ve touched on that in the last paragraph, and the easy answer is ‘to be successful’, but that is quite a loose term, it depends on how you measure success. For me, being successful would mean to continue encouraging new people to get involved with us as we've done a lot of good work on that front so far. I would like us to perform more plays on a more frequent basis to ensure chances are always available throughout the year for people on stage and as part of the various production and backstage teams. Touching on something I mentioned earlier, I want to ensure a varied season of theatre year on year to give our audiences a nice mix of dark and light plays, using classic texts/plays and also not being afraid to deal with more contemporary material.

What are your goals for C&D productions in the next 5 years?
   By the end of our first year we will have performed five different plays, both locally and down in London at a fringe festival. I think within the next five years I would like to perform at more fringe festivals, both locally and further afield, and also increase the number of productions we perform a year. This obviously needs to be at a manageable level and has to be sustainable in terms of time, talent and audience attrition, but I feel it is achievable. The other main thing would be to build up our creative and production teams to ensure that there are always fresh views and approaches. In our first year we've had four different directors involved and I would like to see this number increase, along with the different people involved in other areas including technical, props and make-up for example. Keeping things fresh should ensure a vibrant group of people that is always evolving and keep the risks of stagnancy at arm’s length. 

What do you find most challenging about running your own company?
   I think just keeping track of everything, especially as the beginning was quite daunting. Many people when they think of theatre immediately think of the actors, the venue etc. but the sheer amount of things that happen behind the scenes is amazing. You have to sort out scripts, venues for workshops/auditions and get rehearsal schedules planned before anything has even been set! Running up to the show you have to pull everything together so props, set, marketing, backstage crew, front of house people, not to mention all the technical elements such as lighting.
   I have found the whole experience highly rewarding though as there is no better way to learn than on the job. I did pick up lots of bits of advice during my time with other theatre groups and as mentioned saw things almost crumble last minute on occasion due to poor planning, or more likely to bad communication. We have regular production team meetings once the cast of a play has been assembled and we keep dialogue going constantly as it builds the togetherness that is important for any team to succeed and it allows us to identity any potential problems and deal with them as a collective. Ego has no place within our theatre company and making sure everyone feels valued and appreciated is key to building and maintaining the harmony that has been prevalent in our productions to date.

What do you find most rewarding about having your own theatre company?
   The family feel that we've created has to be one of our biggest accomplishments. I can honestly say I have never known anything like it, especially in the local theatre scene. There are no tears, no dejected looks and certainly no one leaving feeling unhappy or undervalued. Theatre is ultimately to the vast majority of those involved a hobby, hobbies as a rule should be fun, enjoyable and fulfilling and I would like to think we've achieved having that feeling really early on. Perhaps because we don’t approach rehearsals or projects with the ‘what can I get out of this?’ attitude, instead I go in with the thought process of ‘how can I encourage and inspire people to realise and even exceed their potential?’, and that isn't just on a performing level, but it’s almost on a personal one. Actors aren't robots, especially at a young age when people are trying to figure out who they are and what they possibly want from life. I'm privileged to have a fantastic group of people around me and I always operate an open door policy, meaning if someone needs to speak to me about absolutely anything, I'm always there.
   I had a great conversation with one of my bright young talents this week where they said they appreciated me being there and that I had made a real difference over the months I have known them. That for me is one of the best compliments someone can give me as it means I have supported them and have become someone they can rely on. I hate reading articles or statuses where people haven’t got anyone they can go to, and I’d like to think my casts, crew and production teams know they can always come to me. Having a positive impact on someone is one of the best feelings in the world and when people go on to the many achievements they will no doubt have in life, I can at least know I helped them get there even if it was in a small way.

How does social media play a part in your company?
   Social media impacts on practically every facet of our group and productions. I honestly don’t think people and businesses realise how much of a great thing social media can be and how it is seamless and relatively cost effective. We have used it to reach out to parts of the local community which were otherwise untouched and have engaged with people to get involved as actors, backstage crew or volunteers in other parts of the theatre company. It has also allowed us to connect with local businesses too to great effect which both improves our profile locally, and also ensures our long-term future. One local business has agreed a four figure sponsorship deal with us to ensure the majority of our running costs are paid for, meaning we can focus on other elements of the theatre company with the peace of mind that our break-even levels are much lower. A lovely restaurant and cocktail bar has also agreed to form a partnership with us, offering discounted rates to cast/crew and to theatre-goers before and after our performances. The key word that relates to all these examples is community, and continuing down this route can only help us build strong relations with other groups and companies, thus helping them in turn.

Who is your favourite theatre company?
   I can’t really pick one single theatre company that I like as there are many that I’ve had great experiences with, or have enjoyed performances of on the professional stage. Instead I’m going to cheat and pick a theatre I love, The Old Vic, in London. As a theatre it has everything from a rich history going back hundreds of years to presenting an exciting schedule of theatre year on year. As a theatre it has been transformed from a near church room which busied itself with science lectures and conducted itself along ‘strict temperance lines, to then dealing heavily in Shakespeare to its modern day offering which saw a brilliant production of ‘A Streetcar Named Desire’, starring Gillian Anderson. As a theatre it also understands it has a responsibility to the theatre scene and runs umpteen programmes (including Old Vic New Voices) to help young and aspiring actors and directors, as well as doing a ton of community work. 

What's been your favourite production you've put on so far?
   That is a really tough question as they have all left me with great experiences and many happy memories. ‘A Doll’s House’ by Henrik Ibsen was our first production and was really challenging as it presented so many obstacles. Also as it was a debut show it will always have some sentimentality attached to it and was the first of the many steps we've taken since our inception. The two Camden Fringe plays were also an amazing experience, especially as one was my own work and was raising awareness about strokes and Locked-in-Syndrome, with the other which Dan directed presenting me with one of the best characters I've ever played in ‘Death’. My favourite has to be ‘Frankenstein’ by Mary Shelley, as it is our biggest production to date, in both scale with cast size and the magnitude of the project as a whole. It confirmed that we could put on productions of varying size and scope, whilst also bringing through quite a few exciting talents who have since stepped up a level to bigger parts in our next production this December, Charles Dickens’ ‘A Christmas Carol’. The team I assembled around me were all really talented and the ability to build a ‘family’ with a cast and crew numbers over 40 is an achievement I feel very proud of. 

What advice would you give to anybody wanting to start up their own theatre company?
   Look around in your local area and see what other groups are doing. You will need to try to find a different angle or ‘take’ on what your group will offer. There are many societies out there that have been going for decades and are pretty set in their bi-yearly offering. Setting up another group offering the same thing isn't necessarily a bad thing, but you don’t want to split audiences or stretch the local talent pool. Instead it’s better in my opinion to find a niche and pursuit it, as we have done by creating an open door straight acting theatre company. No one theatre company that focuses on acting offers this at the moment and I think the reaction we've had from the public and local community reflects this. That isn't to say that groups should be as open as we are, of course if they want to focus on an invite only approach then that is their choice and good luck to them. The same could be said about groups that have a small group of people to cast from and typically cast the same people in the same roles production after production. This could be down to the group’s inability to attract new members or down to vanity and ego, either way I don’t think it is healthy in the long-term.
   The main advice is to have a focus and don’t veer from it without good reason. Start on a smaller scale and gather a close-knit group around you who share the vision and are willing to put the hours in. Also don’t put ego before the project. Looking at the five productions we will have done in our first year, I will have been a lead in only two of our productions and I think having that transparency is vital to show that new people can come in and have a chance at getting any part. Several local groups have problems with some public opinion being that some parts are often pre-cast, this is a nightmare whether it’s true or not as the general consensus can blacken a name and dissuade people from auditioning. Of course, those people cast could well be the best people for the parts, but I think it’s key to have the transparency I spoke of and if you’re directing something, not to take the lead for yourself. It smacks of vanity and suddenly the question of why groups exist boils down to self-promotion, rather than simply ‘putting on good theatre’.


   The other advice I would have is simply to have fun! It is a hobby for most and it should stay an enjoyable endeavour, especially for the cast involved who give up their time to appear in your productions. Hopefully my thoughts and opinions have given a slight insight into the theatre company world, at least in my sphere, and if anyone wants to discuss anything, ask me questions or link up in projects somehow I’d encourage them to email me at chris@cd-productions.co.uk. I’d also ask people regardless of their location to give our Facebook page (www.facebook.com/CDProductions.theatre) a ‘Like’, doing so is a great way to support our theatre making and community work. We will be performing in fringe festivals throughout the UK in 2015, with London, Brighton and Manchester being likely locations. Also if you want to get involved with us in some way then definitely get in touch! Eleanor has recently joined our team, looking after our Twitter account which currently has 800+ followers and that is testament to our policy of helping and encouraging people. I first met Eleanor a couple of years ago when she was 16 and I’m really proud that she’s at uni, doing something she enjoys and giving her opportunities to hone her skills with us. 


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Chris Lynch
Director
C&D Productions Ltd
www.cd-productions.co.uk
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